Um, why did you delete a post, then post again?
Also, do not use !!!!!!!!! when typing. It is considered yelling, and rude. :)
You really need to read the documentation for Wine and PlayOnLinux, as you do not really understand how it works.
It also seems that if your computer is only seeing 2 out of 4 gb, that you installed a 32 bit operating system.
I am sure someone is very cleaver and knows how to do this with ease
If you read the documentation on how to use PlayOnLinux, you would see how to install programs. In the Install section of PlayOnLinux, Ableton 8 is listed in there. Install it as per the manual.
If you are looking for the system not being out of sync, you are pretty much SOL with that setup. You will also need to run WineASIO and Jack.
I think a better solution for you would be to use Bitwig instead of Ableton Live. I have used Ableton Live for 15 years, and recently switched to Bitwig Studio. I will not be going back to Ableton any time soon.
It does everything that Ableton can do, and then some, plus it runs on Linux natively, so you can just installed it like any other program. I suggest you check that out. I do not think you are going to have much luck with that hardware and ableton live.